Masculinity – Questions: We Don't Have Answers

How Do We Stop the Infighting?

March 28, 2025

If there’s a silver lining to the Trump administration, it’s how galvanizing it can be for the opposition. Not everyone cares about everything, but pretty much everyone hates that guy and his weird friends. Now is the time for all of us across the left side of the political spectrum to come together — but that’s no easy task. This week, the guys discuss the rifts within the Democratic Party, and how they’ve navigated the ideological breaks with their own respective communities. … More How Do We Stop the Infighting?

What are the Real Important Issues in the Male Black Community?

February 14, 2025

After giving their brief thoughts on the already legendary Kendrick Lamar Superbowl Halftime Performance, cousins Don and Jon discuss growing conversations of what concerns the black community, specifically regarding young men. Issues of dating, sexuality and homophobia bounce from namedrop to namedrop, including DJ Akademiks, Lil’ Boosie and…inevitably…Drake.

What’s at the Heart of Toxic Masculinity?

June 10, 2022

Reacting to a variety of recent events in the year, from Tucker Carlson’s mind-defying docuseries to the Uvalde School Mass Shooting, Don and Harry return to the subjects of the male ego, psychology, “Wypipo vs Black People” and their twisted sexualities in the search for the answer to how masculinity becomes toxic.

BestFellas: A Better Tomorrow 2 Commentary

May 28, 2021

What happened?! Tonight, Donovan and Harrison don their shades and dusters for a viewing of A Better Tomorrow 2, a true knockout — but for all the wrong reasons? A sequel to a bona fide classic, this semi-reluctant follow-up, with its tale of emotional amnesia, psychiatric rehabilitation, and killing 100 people in a house, is a bewildering ride. Through the eyes of director John Woo, we investigate themes of masculinity, foreign cool, and action violence. … More BestFellas: A Better Tomorrow 2 Commentary

Why (Do) We Love the Joker

October 13, 2019

This episode starts off with the guys attempting to dissect the public’s fascination with villains, devolving speedily into what doesn’t work about the Todd Phillips film Joker. Here there be SPOILERS, so beware.

What is the Ideal Masculinity?

February 1, 2019

In an All-Star bevvy of guest-host goodness, the conversation of toxic masculinity in the wake of the infamous Gillette commercial brings forth several voices old and new into the QnoA arena!

How Do We Prevent Male Entitlement?

May 4, 2018

The Red Pill. Incels. Femoids. Chads and Stacies. This is the language of a world Harry and Donovan hover over in observation, but refuse to descend upon. Through the cloud of misunderstanding they lock arms and seek to find an answer, together, before they die of smoke inhalation.

How do Men become Misogynist?

November 3, 2017

With the recent revelations of sex abuse in Hollywood, the guys hash out where such predatory mindsets come from.

What Does the Male Feminist Look Like?

May 12, 2017

This week the guys talk guys, and how they try and fail at feminism. Is this even a topic they’re capable of having through to the end? … More What Does the Male Feminist Look Like?

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